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Veronika Bond's avatar

YES! to all three questions. Looking forward to the book club.

Organic shift

In my experience (of over 2 decades) organic shifts can be nurtured and cultivated, like an 'inner garden'.

Controlled shift

In my experience “controlled shifts” (as defined here) can potentially trigger a ‘pseudo mindset shift’. Things may look and feel ‘shifted’ for a certain period, and snap back into the old mode (usually deeper or worse)

'control' can be helpful, if it follows the lead of the organic process.

Postponed shift

“... mindset shifts 
that genuinely what to happen….”

(typo: ‘what’ ›› wait or want?)

In my experience "postponed" means 'I am not yet ready for that shift,' for whatever reason (always related to trauma, which feeds and sustains the attachment).

Mindset shifting (in my understanding) is a natural growing process. Growth spurts are great, and memorable. Growth plateaus are valuable and play an important role in the process too.

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